Thirty-Two Black Women Make History at West Point

Thirty-Two Black Women Make History at West Point

Congrats are in order for the 32 cadets who will make history as the largest class of Black women to graduate from the United States Military Academy at West Point in its 217-year existence, Because of Them We Can reports. 

The women celebrated their upcoming graduation with a traditional Old Corps photoshoot.

Cadet Tiffany Welch-Baker opened up about inspiring the next generation of military leaders during an interview with Because of Them We Can. “My hope when young Black girls see these photos is that they understand that regardless of what life presents you, you have the ability an fortitude to be a force to be reckoned with,” she said. 

She discussed her journey at West Point and finding comfort with her peers. “In just a short while I met so many cadets that looked like me, and that offered me some comfort. I have been so fortunate to have my sisters in arms, we have been fortunate to have each other.”

Though West Point was established in 1802, women were not allowed to enroll until 1976. 

Over the past few years, the academy has made strides toward inclusion, boasting several historic firsts. Last year, Lt. Gen. Darryl A. Williams became the academy’s first Black superintendent. Two years ago, Cadet Simone Askew became the first Black woman named First Captain of the Corps of Cadets at West Point.

Original article was published here.

Educator Lakeisha Brown, Who Survived Homelessness, Named Washington D.C. Public Schools Teacher Of The Year

Educator Lakeisha Brown, Who Survived Homelessness, Named Washington D.C. Public Schools Teacher Of The Year

Lakeisha Brown, an educator who overcame homelessness, was named the D.C. Public Schools Teacher of the Year.

Even though she was awarded this honor in December 2018, Brown candidly spoke with ABC 7 on Wednesday about her own personal adversities growing up, admitting she had teachers who failed to recognize her potential.

“They counted me out,” Brown said. “They didn’t put a lot of focus on African Americans, and that we could go to college or push us to take AP classes.”

What her teachers didn’t know was that Brown was the primary caregiver for her mother, who was dying of AIDS, when she was only nine years old.

“Being up the night before and taking care of a sick parent — my teachers were always mad that I was late,” Brown shared. “They didn’t take the time to give me a moment.”

When she decided to pursue education as her own career path, Brown made a promise not to do the same to her students:

“I told myself I want to be a teacher that counts every child, who thinks that everyone can make it.”

The educator vowed to bring an atmosphere of positivity to her classroom at Lafayette Elementary School in Northwest D.C., where she has taught for the last four years.

“My number one goal is my kids know before we even start our day that they can get a hug first,” Brown stated. “If they are late, I’m not going to rush them in. I’m going to embrace them because you never know what happened before they got there.”

Brown’s Candy Land-themed classroom reflects the excitement she wants her students to have upon entering her space. She furthermore encourages her scholars to lead discussions which, in turn, helps those who are more reserved find their voice. 

“My students do the teaching rather than me doing it. You will see them leading the classroom, asking questions to each other,” Brown explained. “Some of the children who are shy and reserved don’t have their voices heard. So I started selecting them just to make sure that they are also coming out of their shell as well.”

Brown’s students also appreciate their teacher’s commitment to learning, too.

“I like coming in to see Ms. Brown,” Emily, one of her students told ABC 7. “She lets us have fun, but she keeps us getting our brains smarter.”Way to go, Ms. Brown!

Original article was published here.

Black Women Are Standing Behind Ilhan Omar And Reminding Trump That ‘We Refuse To Be Silenced’

Black Women Are Standing Behind Ilhan Omar And Reminding Trump That ‘We Refuse To Be Silenced’

Last week, black women from around the country took to Washington, DC to stand up for Rep. Ilhan Omar (D-MN). The “Black Women In Defense of Ilhan Omar” rally was organized by the Movement for Black Lives (M4BL) in response to threats against Omar’s life.

Since election to Congress in 2018, Omar has been the subject of racist and Islamophobic attacks by Republicans. But, in April, she began to experience an uptick in death threats after President Trump shared an out of context video on Twitter, where Omar discussed the Sept. 11, 2001 attacks.

Omar was grateful for the support offered to her at the rally, where the underlying message said, “Black women will not be silenced from speaking out about sexism, racism, and bigotry.”

While the rally itself was intended to defend Omar, it also demonstrated how threats of violence against black women elected officials have increased under the Trump administration. Trump has targeted black women within the field of journalism, as well as within the U.S. House of Representatives; such as with Rep. Frederica Wilson (D-FL), Rep. Maxine Waters (D-CA), and now Omar.

Advocates say the Democratic Party has not done nearly enough to stand up to Trump in this regard. While many Democratic leaders have spoken out about Trump’s tweets, he has yet to be officially censured or reprimanded. To that end, black women are using their various platforms to speak out—not just about the hatred and violence that Trump is inciting, but also to hold Democratic officials accountable.

Makia Green, an organizer for Black Lives Matter DC, told Blavity Politics that despite the history of silencing black voices, black women will always push back.

“We are making a declaration of support in defense of Rep. Ilhan Omar and [are] targeting the Democratic leadership to let them know that not only do we see their silence, but we are making our demands clear that they speak out against the attacks on her and take legal action to censure President Trump,” Green said.

Rep. Ayanna Pressley (D-MA) has also said black women will no longer be silent in the face of hatred and bigotry.

“We are demanding you trust black women, you see black women, you believe black women, and honor us for the role we have played as healers and preservers of this democracy and this nation,” Pressly said at the rally.

Original article was published here.

7 TV Shows With Black Leads That Have Been Canceled

7 TV Shows With Black Leads That Have Been Canceled

Some of our fan-favorite shows were part of the unfortunate few that got cut way before their time.

Along with Steve Harvey, whose eponymous talk show was axed this month too, there’s several shows starring Black actors and actresses that aren’t returning.

Lethal Weapon (Fox)

Lethal Weapon, starring Damon Wayans, was canceled after three seasons. It comes after Wayans announced last October that he’s quitting the show to spend more quality time with himself and his family.

Happy Together (CBS)

Another Wayans is now off the small screen. Damon Wayans Jr., who starred in Happy Together, will not return for a second season.

Star (Fox)

Lee Daniels’ Star, which starred Queen Latifah, Brandy, Ryan Destiny and Quincy, is being ripped from Fox after three seaons.

Fam (CBS)

Fam, starring Tone Bell, will not get a second season.

The Fix (ABC)

The ABC drama created by former prosecutor Marcia Clark was canceled after one season. The series starred Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje.

Detroiters (Comedy Central)

This comedy series, starring Sam Richardson and Tim Robinson as two friends who ran an advertisement agency, was canceled after two seasons.

Marlon (NBC)

The family comedy about a former couple co-parenting, and starring Marlon Wayans, Bresha Webb and Essence Atkins, was canceled after season two.

Original article was published here.

Black Women Deserve the Truth From Their Doctors. Trump Is Trying to Keep Us in the Dark

Black Women Deserve the Truth From Their Doctors. Trump Is Trying to Keep Us in the Dark

When I was 19 years old, I walked into a health center in Michigan knowing I was pregnant but uncertain of my future. To this day, I remember the compassion and grace of the nurse who helped me, who saw me scared and crying but calmly let me know that I had options. I could give birth and raise a child, I could pursue adoption, or I could have an abortion—an abortion that she told me was my right if I wanted it, and she reminded me that I didn’t have to carry any shame about my decision.

It was a relief. I have not always had positive interactions with doctors and nurses—an experience many other black women share, rooted in our country’s dark history. From forced sterilization to substandard care, the mistreatment of black women by some in the medical community is a horrific truth that we must actively address. Advocates are speaking out about the importance of listening to and being honest with, black patients. And health care providers across the country, like Planned Parenthood, are working to improve patient care for black women.

But now, a new rule from the Trump-Pence administration could roll back all that progress and—once again—risk the health and wellbeing of black women by forcing health care providers to withhold critical health information.

Just a couple of weeks ago, the administration released a gag rule that would undermine Title X (pdf), a federal program dedicated to ensuring that people struggling to make ends meet can still access birth control, STI testing, and breast and cervical cancer screenings. Of the four million patients who rely on Title X health centers for essential reproductive health care, 22 percent are black. Research shows that the barriers to health care many of us face often result in delayed diagnoses, higher rates of cervical cancer, and increased mortality rates for breast and cervical cancer. That’s why the preventive services provided through Title X are so essential. It is not an exaggeration to say that this gag rule threatens our survival.

The gag rule makes it illegal for health care providers in Title X to refer patients for abortion—essentially “gagging” them from being able to provide their patients with the medically accurate information they requested. There is already a long-held and very real mistrust of medicine and the health care system for so many of us. Our pain has been taken less seriously. Our sisters and friends are more likely to die in childbirth. And now the administration wants to force health care providers to violate medical ethics by not informing us of all of our care options when they treat us. Whether you’re at a community health center, your local health department, or a hospital that participates in this program, your doctor or nurse would be legally bound to withhold the full information about your health care options.

Planned Parenthood—which serves 41 percent of all the patients who get care through Title X—will never violate medical ethics by being anything less than 100 percent honest and open with patients. But that also means Planned Parenthood health centers will no longer be able to participate in the program—putting health care at risk for 1.6 million patients. People who can’t find or can’t afford another reproductive health care provider may be left with nowhere to turn.

Beyond violating medical ethics, the gag rule also imposes cost prohibitive and unnecessary “physical separation” requirements on health centers that also provide abortion. These could include forcing health centers to build separate entrances and exits, construct whole new health centers, or hire a whole second staff of doctors, nurses, and administrative staff. None of these requirements contribute to the health of patients. They’re specifically designed to block patients from coming to Planned Parenthood.

This is a targeted attack on people with low-incomes, on the black communities who rely on this program, and on access to health care. It’s not about improving health outcomes, it’s not about helping people, it’s about pushing a discriminatory ideology to dismantle reproductive health care in this country.

It is impossible to separate this attack on our health care from the countless attacks this administration has leveled against us so far. Since day one, the anti-blackness the Trump administration is steeped in has fueled hateful rhetoric, emboldened white supremacists and led to many harmful policies: voter suppression efforts that make it impossible for many black people to vote; the slashing of social programs; and ending temporary protected status for black immigrants are all aimed at making it harder for us to live full lives. This rule is no different.

Part of recognizing and rectifying the history of black women’s mistreatment by the medical community is committing to open and honest medical practices and fighting against policies that would roll back our progress. That’s why medical organizations like the American Medical Association, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and the National Medical Association, which represents more than 50,000 black doctors and their patients, have been firm in their opposition to this dangerous rule. Planned Parenthood is standing with other health care providers, we are standing with our patients, and we are not backing down. We’re going to fight this rule through every possible avenue.

Black women deserve the truth. We deserve access to the health care that could save our lives. And we deserve the freedom to make decisions about our bodies.

If the administration won’t act, then Congress must. In November, we voted a slate of reproductive health champions into Congress. We showed up for them and it’s time for them to show up for us. Tell Congress to #ProtectX.

Original article was published here.

Pass That Doctorate: Missy Elliott Shares Inspirational Message While Receiving Honorary Degree

Pass That Doctorate: Missy Elliott Shares Inspirational Message While Receiving Honorary Degree

If there’s only a handful of redeemable qualities about 2019, surely one of them is this: it’s the year Missy Elliott is getting her flowers.

Earlier in 2019, the hip-hop innovator and vanguard became the first female hip-hop artist inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame. Now, Elliott’s officially a doctor, walking across the stage at Berklee College of Music on Saturday to receive her honorary degree.

Elliott was bursting with joy at the honor, documenting her latest achievement on her Instagram account.

“CREATE YOUR OWN LANE!!!!” wrote the trailblazing rapper/producer/bad bitch, signing it off,“Dr. Missy Elliot.”

“This year’s honorary doctorate recipients are being recognized for their achievements and influences in music, and for their enduring global impact,” Berklee said in a March statement.

Elliott also delivered a speech at the weekend commencement ceremony emphasizing resilience—not surprising for a musician whose career has spanned three decades. 

As she went up to receive her degree, Elliott got visibly emotional.

“Let me just soak it in,” she said once she approached the podium, fanning tears from her eyes.

During her short speech, Elliott told Berklee graduates to prepare for ups and downs, recounting her own personal challenges in the music industry: her excitement when she was first featured on a track, only to be caught off-guard by the accompanying video. There was her voice on the TV—except it was coming out of a slimmer, conventionally prettier woman.

“That was the first time I realized that maybe I wasn’t the look of beauty that people thought beauty was then. And that discouraged me,” she said. “But I kept going.”

Elliott talked about being dropped from a girl group, and the time she was nominated for 12 awards. She had her speech written out and even practiced in the mirror the night before the ceremony, she said, only to come away from the awards show empty-handed.

“As long as you are breathing, it is never too late. Because people will tell you you’re too old, people will tell you it’ll never work.” she said. “You have come too far to quit.”

Full speech here.

Original articlewas published here.

Shaquille O’Neal Gifts 10 Pairs of Shoes to Teen with Size 18 Feet

Shaquille O’Neal Gifts 10 Pairs of Shoes to Teen with Size 18 Feet

Former NBA champion Shaquille O’Neal knows first hand how hard it was finding shoes to fit his large feet as a teen. When he heard the story of eighth-grade student Zach Keith, 13, and his struggle to afford shoes for his size 18 feet, O’Neal immediately decided to help by gifting the teen 10 pairs of shoes.

During an interview with CNN affiliate WGCL O’Neal said, “The mom couldn’t afford to buy the kid shoes. The kid has big feet. I just kind of reminisced back to how that used to be me, my mom and my dad.”

According to the news network, the Hall of Famer, who wore a size 18 when he headed to prom, was gifted a pair of free penny loafers by Atlanta’s Friedman’s Shoes owner, Bruce Teilhaber. 

Touched by Teilhaber’s act of kindness, O’Neal, who now wears a size 22, has remained a loyal shopper at Friedman’s Shoes and paid the good deed forward. “Bruce did it for me, and I just want to return the favor,” he said. 

Floored by Shaq’s kindness, the teen, who plays basketball, said, “Like, whoa. He wants to buy me shoes, out of all people?”

His mother, Brittany Keith, shared just how much O’Neal’s good deed eased some of her stress. “This will help a lot,” she explained. “I won’t so much have to worry about buying him dress shoes. He hasn’t had a pair of dress shoes in about four or five years because its been hard trying to find the ones that actually fit.” 

Grateful for the act of kindness, she continued, “And for me it was just, it was very touching, very heartfelt and to know that there’s somebody out there that has his back.”

Original article was published here.

10 Quotes That Show Michelle Obama Is The Mom America Needs

10 Quotes That Show Michelle Obama Is The Mom America Needs

Michelle Obama, former first lady and forever mom-in-chief, has long been a source of inspiration, encouragement and kindly worded tough love. She’s basically the mother figure we’ve needed.

For Mother’s Day, we gathered 10 pearls of wisdom Obama has doled out over the years, from dealing with bullies, to dealing with partners, to dealing with work. Like any good mother, she’s teaching us how to be better human beings and how to live happier, healthier lives. 

On Education

“Don’t be afraid. Be focused. Be determined. Be hopeful. Be empowered. Empower yourselves with a good education … then get out there and use that education to build a country worthy of your boundless promise.” Final speech as first lady, 2017

On Bullies

“When someone is cruel or acts like a bully, you don’t stoop to their level. No, our motto is, when they go low, we go high.” Democratic National Convention, 2016

On Choosing The Right Partner

“Reach for partners that make you better. Do not bring people into your life who weigh you down. Good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don’t hurt.” Address to Elizabeth Garrett Anderson students, 2011

On Choosing The Right Friends

“You have to fill your bucket with positive energy — and if you have people hanging around you that are bringing you down and not lifting you up, whether that’s your ‘boo’ or your best friend — you have to learn how to push these people to the side.” The Power of an Education Girl panel, 2015

On Success

“Success isn’t about how much money you make, it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives.” Democratic National Convention, 2012

On Failure

“Failure is an important part of your growth and developing resilience. Don’t be afraid to fail.” The Power of an Educated Girl panel, 2015

On Self-Care

“We need to do a better job putting ourselves higher on our own ‘to do’ list.” Let Girls Learn event, 2016

On Believing In Yourself

“You don’t have to be somebody different to be important. You are important in your own right.” Let Girls Learn trip, 2016

On Dreaming Big

“The only limit to the height of your achievement is the reach of your dreams and your willingness to work hard for them.” Democratic National Convention keynote address, 2008

On Making Good Decisions

“Don’t ever make decisions based on fear. Make decisions based on hope and possibility. Make decisions based on what should happen, not what shouldn’t.” excerpt from “Becoming”

Original article was published here.

14 Things Black Moms Don’t Hear Often Enough

14 Things Black Moms Don’t Hear Often Enough

We’ve shown love to young black girls and black men, but now we want to speak to the parents that helped us become exactly who we are. Thank you for showing me what it means to persevere, be courageous and advocate for your children in a world that doesn’t expect you to do any of that.

1.Thank you for showing me what it means to persevere, be courageous and advocate for your children in a world that doesn’t expect you to do any of that

2. Putting yourself first is not selfish. Being mentally, physically, and spiritually balanced can influence the balance of our family.

3. Take some time for yourself. Relax.

4. You remind me every day what hard work and dedication truly mean. I appreciate you.

5. I think you’re beautiful. Exactly how you are – love marks, curves and all! #Blackgirlmagic

6. It’s okay to be lonely, but know that you are not alone.

7. You’re powerful. The risk you took bringing and protecting a black life in this world speaks to that.

8. Material things don’t matter. Your love and support is what we crave the most.

9. You are the reason I will never ever quit.

10. We miss you! Even though we don’t call enough, know that we are thinking of you daily.

11. You have the power to break any family habits and cycles. What your mother, sister and grandmother did is NOT a reflection of how you have to live your life.

12. You are enough. I know raising a black family is not easy, and you did an amazing job!

13. Don’t stop dreaming just because you’re getting older. Black will never crack and your dreams are there for a reason. Go get ’em, just like you taught us too.

14. Thank you. Thank you for all the sacrifices you made.

Original article was published here.

21 Black Mama Sayings That We All Grew Up Hearing

21 Black Mama Sayings That We All Grew Up Hearing

No nonsense black mamas have a language of their own, and anybody who was raised by one will recognize it instantly. While I resent the idea that all black women are snappy and quick to anger, I do admit that we usually don’t take kindly to disrespect. It starts at home with our mothers and from the time we are young, they have a series of sayings we hear well into our adult years. I’m sure if you’re a mother now, you may find yourself saying the same things your mother said to you.

Here are 21 black mama sayings that I’m sure we’ve all heard at some point.

1. “I’m not one of your little friends.”

2. “Do I look like booboo the fool?”

3. “A hard head makes a soft behind.”

4. “First of all, check your tone.”

5. “Stop all that crying before I give you something to cry about.”

6. “You got McDonald’s money?”

7. “Don’t you get in trouble following behind them white kids.”

8. “I hope you know that school work like you know them songs.”

9. “You smellin’ yourself.”

10. “When we get in this store, don’t touch nothin’.”

11. “Fix your face.”

12. “I don’t care what _______’s mama does. I’m not _______’s mama”

13. “Keep playing and see what happens.”

14. “Is that your lil’ friend?”

15. “Didn’t I tell you…”

16. “Don’t let your mouth write a check your ass can’t cash.”

17. “Stop running in and out of my house.”

18. “You smell like outside.”

19. “I brought you in this world, and I can take you out.”

20. “Go sit down somewhere.”

21. “If someone hits you first, you hit them back.”

Original article was published here.