Kevin Hart Leads Top Actors Social Media Ranking for First Time in Nearly a Year

Kevin Hart Leads Top Actors Social Media Ranking for First Time in Nearly a Year

The chart ranks the most popular actors based on data from Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube and Google Plus.

Kevin Hart returns to No. 1 on The Hollywood Reporter’s Top Actors chart for the first time in nearly a year, pushing 2-1 on the Jan. 16-dated ranking.

The Top Actors chart is a ranking of the most popular actors on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube and Google Plus, with global data provided by social media analytics company MVPindex. The chart’s methodology blends social engagement on the platforms along with weekly additions of followers/subscribers. The latest tracking week ended Jan. 8.

Hart leads Priyanka Chopra, who falls to No. 2 after ruling the list for five consecutive weeks.

Kristen Bell re-enters the tally to reach a new peak of No. 3, and Will Smith and Jason Momoa round out the top five.

See the top 10 below (and for the full 25-position list, pick up the THR issue dated Jan. 16), and for more charts on The Hollywood Reporter, check out the Top Comedians and Top TV Personalities charts.

  • 10. Gabrielle Union 9. Jada Pinkett Smith 8. Lin-Manuel Miranda 7. Debby Ryan 6. George Takei 5. Jason Momoa 4. Will Smith 3. Kristen Bell 2. Priyanka Chopra 1. Kevin Hart

The Best U.S. Fall Drinking Destinations, According To Bartenders

The Best U.S. Fall Drinking Destinations, According To Bartenders

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When most of us think about traveling, we tend to imagine the summertime. The humid, sunny summer days are perfect for road trips and vacations. But in June, July, and August doesn’t it make more sense to stay home where everything is already idyllic?

That’s why we believe that fall travel is hugely underrated. Depending on where you visit, you can see the red, gold, and orange hues of the changing leaves while enjoying a warming cocktail. Or you can chase the summer south and recapture the heat. The options are vast and the flights are far cheaper.

We asked some of our favorite bartenders to tell us their go-to fall drinking destinations. You can check out all of their answers below.

Louisville, Kentucky

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Ben Rouse , bar lead at Henley in Nashville

“Louisville, Kentucky. I am a bourbon lover and the homeland of bourbon makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. I love the foothills of Appalachia from about the end of August through October — the air smells like brown sugar and the leaves are turning, making it the perfect destination for fall.”

New England

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Will Piquette, principal bartender at Alcove in Boston

“An apple orchard does it for me. Fresh apple cider, cider doughnuts, and nips of apple brandy to make picking apples a perfect fall afternoon. And then there’s the fruits of your labor: apple pie for days! With so many different orchards in New England, trying a new orchard every year makes the experience that much more special.”

Park City, Utah

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Don Hernandez, beverage director at Holston House Nashville

“Park City, Utah. I fell in love with this place and the people, definitely a hidden gem. The change of the leaves blankets the mountains with tones of red, gold, and green. The air is crisp and refreshing and the clouds are always moving in big clusters — almost like watching a portrait being painted right before your eyes. The chill in the air lends itself to sitting on the deck with a nice dram of whiskey, a cold beer after a long hike, or a champagne toast at the St. Regis during sundown.”

San Francisco, California

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Evan Hosaka, lead bartender at Electra at the Venetian in Las Vegas

“I love San Francisco for its beautiful weather in September and October. Buena Vista Irish coffee is a definite hit during the fall season with Ghiradelli chocolate factory across the street. Napa Valley isn’t a far drive away but during early fall, harvest time, its absolutely a drinking destination worth visiting.”

Vermont

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Kenneth Lingle, The Row Hotel at Assembly Row in Somerville, Massachusetts

“Anywhere in Vermont on a chilly day near a covered bridge watching the leaves during foliage. It doesn’t get any more Fall in New England than that.”

Texas Hill Country

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Chris Gere, bartender at Brennan’s of Houston

“Favorite US fall drinking destination? Because I just went to a wedding there, I’d have to say the Texas Hill Country around Fredericksburg. Lots of new wineries and breweries, with varying degrees of quality, but you can’t beat the scenery. I like to call it Little Napa.”

Napa Valley, California

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Richard Hanauer, beverage director at RPM Restaurants in Chicago

“Napa Valley in the fall. The weather starts to turn cold and all the tourists leave, just in time for when the harvest is in and the winemaking process begins. It’s the end of one season and the start of another – the grapes that were just harvested get turned into wine right in front of your eyes. Seeing the smartest minds in viniculture get to work, it’s truly a magical experience. And as the old adage goes, it takes a case of beer to make a bottle of wine, so yes, we get to spend a lot of time drinking both beer and wine with the winemaking teams.”

New York City, New York

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Juyoung Kang, lead bartender at The Dorsey in Las Vegas

“Nothing beats NYC in the fall. Intermittent sun rays, slight chill winds, the hustle and bustle of commuters as they rush to work. Just makes you wanna sit outside in the park, with street vendor coffee in the Greek paper cup and grab an airplane bottle of your favorite spirit at the bodega, eat half your bagel give the other half to pigeons and read a newspaper for the first time in ages. NYC just makes you do things without you even noticing you’re doing them. Besides what other city has a million and one bars to just hop into. If one’s busy, you just walk down into the next one.”

The Finger Lakes, New York

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Jules Elkovich, Sommelier at Michael Jordan’s Steak House in Uncasville, Connecticut

“New York’s Finger Lakes are a staggeringly gorgeous fall destination. The fall foliage is in full show, harvest has begun at the orchard and vineyards, and there are harvest festivals and Oktoberfest celebrations to be found every weekend.”

Denver, Colorado

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Nick Barlow, bartender at Momofuku Las Vegas

“My favorite U.S drinking destination in the fall is going to be Denver, Colorado. Typically, during the second week of October, the Great American Beer Festival is held in the sacred halls of their convention center. If you’ve ever had Oktoberfest on your bucket list, this festival is a solid replacement. Last year it had over 3,800 different beers to choose from…And for you cocktail guys and gals, Williams and Graham Speakeasy will keep your more than satisfied.”

Cincinnati, Ohio

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Molly Wellmann, bartender Myrtle’s Punch House in Cincinnati

“The Cincinnati Region is a spirited destination and a must visit this fall. It is a perfect blend of bourbon on the Kentucky side of the region, with New Riff Distilling and the new B-Line bourbon experience as well as the incredible cocktail culture and brewing heritage in downtown Cincinnati. This region where beer meets bourbon hosts great bars like Wellmann’s Japp’s Since 1879 and countless others.”

Nashville

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Danwel Olivo, bartender at Conrad Fort Lauderdale Beach

“As whiskey is my drink of choice, my favorite fall drinking destination would have to be Nashville. An up-and-coming destination for whiskey lovers, Tennessee offers whiskey processed in-state that is aged at least two years and made from 51 percent corn.”

Newport, Rhode Island

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Spencer Elliot, head bartender at Cleo in New York City

“Hands down, Newport, Rhode Island. The summer crowds have left, the transient bar folk have gone and you’re left with plenty of bar stools overlooking one of the largest sailing harbors in the US.”

The Do’s & Dont’s of Traveling Together (Without Ruining Everything)

The Do’s & Dont’s of Traveling Together (Without Ruining Everything)

DON’T make a first trip that’s over two weeks long.

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Your first vacation in a new relationship is a big deal. It means that this person likes you enough that they’re willing to throw down some serious cash (and use up their precious, limited vacation time) in order to spend time with you. And this is almost certainly because they’re (at least moderately) into you and your charming personality and general hotness and almost definitely not because this has been one long con to get you onto a cruise ship and then murder you far out to sea so they can steal that $807 in your bank account. Almost, definitely, probably not.

But with the excitement of getting to lounge on the beach together, comes some pressure. What if it’s terrible? What if you find out that they cut their toenails on airplanes or it comes up in casual conversation that they think John Mulaney is “just okay.” Or maybe they voted for the opposite political candidate as you or didn’t vote at all because “what’s the point.” Maybe every time they order a drink on vacation they sing the entire, “Do you like Pina Coladas and getting caught in the rain?” song.

Worse still, what if you’re the one doing terrible, unforgivable things to them? What if you’re the toenail clipping person?

Have no fear though, friends, passionate admirers, and bitter ex-lovers — we’re here to tell you the dos and don’ts of your first couple’s trip. Because with the right set up, planning, and basic human decency your trip can be as smooth as possible. Maybe even fun? Follow these simple guidelines and you will be well on your way to standing in an infinity pool with your girlfriend or boyfriend staring at the rainforest for as long as both shall live. Or at least until you get bored.

DO keep both of your budgets in mind when planning.

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The Situation:

You’re very, very wealthy. Instead of pebbles in your driveway, you use diamonds. Instead of cat litter, you use diamonds. Instead of toothpaste you just grind diamonds onto your teeth, every night, until they’ve been grated away to dust, painfully, one. by. one. But no big deal because you can replace them with DIAMONDS.

Naturally, you’ll just pick a hotel at random from a list a friend gave you. You’re not going to give that friend’s name but it rhymes with Bark Buckerberg (coincidentally that’s also the name of a dog you have an ongoing feud with. He knows what he did).

Why you should be looking up sales or try a hotel app:

Unless you’re paying for everything as a gift, your first trip’s opulence level should be based on the financial situation of the partner who has less money. Because — spoiler alert: You’ll both have more fun if one of you isn’t worrying that this trip is going to keep them from paying rent on time or drain the money they were saving for their cat’s diabetes medication.

“No, no, it’s fine. I love 90 dollar steaks and besides, Fluffy has lived a very long and fulfilling life, I guess (strangled sob). Yep. Let’s get in the hot tub. That sounds like a good place to cry. I mean kiss.”

Look, at the beginning of any relationship, you’re trying really hard to go with the flow and be easy-going. It means that it’s much harder for your bf/gf to say no to that nice hotel you swear has the softest pillows in the world or say, “are you f-ing kidding me. You know my cat has diabetes.” when you suggest a $300 pre-fixe menu. So do your partner a favor and pick a spot that will make everyone feel comfortable and not stressed.

(Although, if you’re both rich af, do whatever you want! And also, I don’t know, adopt me? Adopting adult women is a thing you can do right? Be my new parents, please? I’m nice!)

DON’T make a first trip that’s over two weeks long.

The Situation:

You look into bae’s eyes and see your whole life of adventure spread out in front of you as endlessly as the stars in the sky. What’re six months backpacking around South America compared to forever in each other’s arms? Tis a blip in the history of time. You know what they say: “When you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to start in a hostel in Columbia arguing about which one of you was responsible for leaving your passports on a bus.”

Why you should make it more of a quick “Tuesday Siesta” than a “100 Years of (Non) Solitude” situation:

Sure, long bouts of travel might be incredible with this person. Maybe. But if it doesn’t work out? Ooooo boy. You’re now stuck with a nightmare companion who only wants to watch Mad Men on his laptop all day in bed and hates “weird food.” And if you’re in it for the long haul, you’ll start wishing every single train you take to a new country would just lose control and go off the rails but without Liam Neeson there to keep you all from going to your fiery death.

For the first trip, just keep it on the shorter end. Dip your toe into the waters to see if you’re going to be in the company of a sweet, sweet manatee who just wants a hug or a literal shark who will bite off that toe and still be hungry for more of your flesh.

DO pick somewhere neither of you know well.

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The Situation:

What’s that you say? My new lover has never been to Paris? Never? Why I’ve never heard of such a thing. Not even in college? Well, that won’t do. I’ve been to Paris hundreds of times. Thousands. Millions. He has to go to Paris! We have to go to Paris! EVERYBODY NEEDS TO SEE PARIS.

Why you should close your eyes and stop a globe with your finger:

You might have the impulse to take your boyfriend/girlfriend/partner somewhere you know well in which you can wildly impress them by showing them the world, shining shimmering splendid. And that worldliness will be great on a future trip, I promise. But for the first trip, it’s best to make new memories and be on equal footing.

You don’t know each other that well. So even though you think you know the best restaurant that they’ll “totally love” maybe they won’t. And they’re worried now about hurting your feelings. Or you have to feel stupid that you picked Crabby Chris’s Crab Emporium when it’s not as good as you remember, and also, put your new lover into anaphylactic shock.

Going to a place neither of you has been (or at least knows well) will allow you to explore together, create new memories, and both feel empowered to make suggestions because you’ll both feel ownership over your first trip together. (And for the love of God, do not plan your first vacation in a spot where you and your ex had a romantic time once.)

DON’T leave without figuring out the money stuff first.

The Situation:

Isn’t it kind of awkward to talk about money and not very sexy? You’ll just feel it out when you get there. You’re pretty good at home taking turns with treating or splitting the check! Never look before you leap, your grandmother used to say. Boy, do you miss her since her shocking fall to her death. Who saw that coming?

Why you should learn how to make a quick spreadsheet:

In a situation where you’re dropping a lot of dough and you’re eating EVERY meal together, the financial stuff isn’t just something you forget about easily. It gets brought to the surface over and over again. And you really don’t want to be constantly calculating who paid for what and harboring secret resentments every time the bill arrives. Before your trip, know each other’s budgets. Discuss what you’re comfortable splurging on or not. Then figure out if you want to pool cash and use it for meals and activities or put it all on one credit card and split it later.

Be sure to schedule in some room to be generous, too. Sure, you paid for the surf session and she paid for a slightly cheaper dinner. But if part of you is truly fuming that you ended up paying 50 bucks more on a vacation, there might be a bigger problem in your relationship. I’m no therapist (I’m just an omniscient advice God who is always right) but, most likely, finances are already something you’re frustrated about in everyday life. So you should try to work that out before you head to Tahiti and lose it when she doesn’t reach for her credit card to pay for half of the vanilla ice cream you two plan to lick off of one another.

DO use your own suitcase.

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The Situation:

You’re packing light, you’ll share a suitcase! Doesn’t that make you seem easygoing? You could wear literally one outfit the entire time or no outfit at all. You could fashion a suit from the hotel toilet paper. YOU’RE SO LOW MAINTENANCE!!

And besides, isn’t it sexy to think about your undergarments brushing up against each other?

Why you should keep some personal space:

Question: Does the idea of your undergarments all mixed in together sound as sexy when they’re dirty?

I’m all for getting comfortable, but it’s your first trip. If it’s adventurous and you want to pack light, better to both bring your own backpacks than share one rolling bag. You probably have different packing techniques and different ideas of what is essential and it’s a fight you don’t need to have before you even leave. It’s way easier to have your own little bit of personal space than dealing with the bag politics of who gets more space for shoes or all of those ceramic elephants filled with heroin that a nice man asked you to smuggle across the border.

DON’T be afraid to ask strangers to take your photo.

The Situation:

It would be rude to ask someone else to take your picture even though you just did a once in a lifetime climb to the top of Mt. Everest. What if they say no? Or worse, look slightly annoyed. What if they sigh, and say, sure. But in a way that makes it clear they don’t want to. Nah, better not to risk it. Better to just snap a couple of selfies. No biggie. You climb Everest all the time.

Why you should make some strangers to be your Instagram boyfriend:

Selfies can be fine, but they’re generally not something you want to frame and hang in your living room. You just went on this awesome trip — you should get a couple of nice pictures of the two of you together, in front of pretty backdrops.

Rules of polite society apply on this — ask someone lingering. Don’t ask someone clearly hurrying somewhere, or wearing headphones, or reading. The best way to get someone to take your pic painlessly is to look for a couple taking single pictures of each other or one person being left out of a group shot and ask them if they’d like you to take it so they can be in it. 99.9 percent of the time, they really appreciate it. And will be happy to return the favor quickly. Make the effort, you’ll be glad to look back at it when you’re old and grey and married to totally different people (statistically speaking).

DO poop in the hotel room.

The Situation:

You live in separate places! Normally, you just have a fun night. Then you make an excuse when you need to go to the bathroom and go back home for a nice leisurely poop with no one you have romantic feelings for outside the door listening to the horrible, horrible sounds coming out of your delicate body.

Why you should consider going for your “number 2” option on this one:

If we had our way, our significant others would never know that we poop. They’d never hear it or smell it or think of it. You’d pay to have the guys from Eternal Sunshine come over and wipe their memory of what transpired in the bathroom from their minds every night while they slept.

I’m sorry though, you have to break the seal on this one. Everybody poops and, on a trip, it will become uncomfortable to either hold it or run to the lobby bathroom over and over. It’s a lot of pressure, I’ve been there. A trip is the perfect time to finally admit you’re human.

That said, the most discreet way of doing so is taking a shower, starting the water to minimize sound, do your business and then jump in. You’ll get a little more time for any odors to evaporate and the smell of products you showered with will help too. Oh, and don’t go with the door open. Not ever. Not even after 50 years of marriage. It’s not okay. Some things we don’t need to share.

DON’T plan on having stimulating conversation the entire time.

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The Situation:

God, you love talking to your partner. They’re so smart and funny and some nights, after a date, you just stay up for hours, talking. You usually end up accidentally closing restaurants down because you just lose track of the time. This trip is going to be a dream come true, you have all the time in the world!

Why you should have some Dan Savage queued up for the road:

If you’ve mostly only seen each other for a few dates a week, you might be expecting sparkling convo all the time. But traveling can be exhausting. And that’s okay. Seriously, it does not mean you are doomed as a couple because you realize here and there that you’ve run out of things to say. Be prepared with a mystery podcast you can start together or save up a few episodes of that comedy thing you both love. You will almost inevitably hit a point where you need to just not talk to anyone. Having some options that allow you to be together, experiencing something chill (without needing to come up with 20 questions about their high school mascot) is sometimes just what you need in order to recharge.

DO take a little time apart.

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The Situation:

Wait. You’re on a trip together. You’re supposed to spend every second together, right? You guys were told first couple’s trip was the one in which a mad scientist was supposed to “human centipede” you, right? RIGHT????

Why you should keep the key to your room’s secret escape hatch:

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. It’s okay if one of you wants to read a book by the pool one afternoon and the other wants to go on a hike or hit up a museum. Sometimes you need a few minutes to just be weird, weird you. So run down to get a coffee in the morning and linger a little on the walk back. Be chill about just wanting different things a couple of times, and enjoy the peace that sometimes comes from not having the person you love most in the world reading you 700 menus of restaurants even though you told them you were fine with them picking.

Give yourself a break, you know? Otherwise, too much togetherness can lead to being a little stir-crazy and fighting.

DON’T plan so many activities that you’re too tired for vacation sex.

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The Situation:

This is your first vacation together! You should do everything there is to offer! Scuba diving at 6am, rock climbing at 2pm, an amazing cocktail bar before that restaurant everyone talks about, a late night ghost tour at 10! AND THEN YOU’LL START AGAIN.

Fun! This is fun! They call this FUN.

Why you should make good use of your hotel room:

Vacation sex is objectively the best kind of sex. It just is. You don’t have to be up for work, you don’t have to be quiet for any neighbors (I mean you’re never going to see these people again and besides they are also having hotel sex), all of your stuff is in the same place, you’re more relaxed with lower inhibitions, and finally, if there are two beds in the room, guess who has a separate “sex bed” from the ‘sleeping bed’. YOU GUYS DO. Dream.

There’s certainly nothing wrong with not having sex on your vacation if you don’t want to, but, usually on your first romantic getaway, that’s something you’re kind of into. So… don’t plan things to death. Leave lots of room in your schedule for “naps” and “getting ready for dinner” and “having sex all day.” Give yourself the option for when the mood strikes.

DO pick an activity that takes you both out of your comfort zones.

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The Situation:

Oh, you’re not going to do ANYTHING weird that will embarrass you in front of your new love. I mean, what if you look like a fool? You’ll stick to pointing out all of the kinds of birds you know on gently inclined walks, thank you very much.

Why you should totally leap out of a plane:

Doing things that scare you a little or get your heart rate up bonds you together. Adventure makes you feel connected and makes you more sexually attracted to your partner. Seriously, get that dose of heart-pumping adrenaline going through your body while looking into each other’s eyes and you’re likely to feel a higher sense of arousal later.

Plus, doing things that you aren’t good at or trying things for the first time leads to fun. You’ll laugh, you’ll mess up, you’ll learn something and that’s good on a first trip. It’s a better story to talk about the time you took surfing lessons, fell off your board, and were stung by a passing sting ray, than that time you both played a perfectly adequate round of mini-golf. So take one for the team. There might even be great “you were so brave” vacation sex after.

DON’T feel bad about re-examining your relationship if your partner is a monster to travel with.

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The Situation:

Your awesome boyfriend who volunteers at charity programs for kids, and makes you extravagant dinners just because you had a hard day at work, and is so good at karaoke — has transformed into a literal demon from Hell who yells at waiters and hates the smell of the ocean for some reason, and whose eyes turn red every time you put your own music on and his head spins around and he vomits green bile into your face.

Why you should maybe hop back on Tinder for a bit:

When something is stressful like your partner’s bag gets lost, do they scream at everyone including you and are totally miserable to be around? Do they then not bounce back and spend the next 24 hours complaining about the pants in that bag and how they wanted to wear them tonight. Look: Of course travel stuff can be really stressful, we’ve all had our brief meltdowns but if your partner is terrible to be around through those stresses, consistently, I have news for you, they may not be great just…in life. Because you know what else is stressful: getting married, losing a job, having kids, your computer breaking, getting sick, getting a parking ticket, balancing your bank account, spending time with in-laws, learning a movie you wanted to see is sold out, finding out that the person who you thought loved you watched The Good Place without you…

Stressful shit will always happen. And the thing about traveling together is that for the first time you are spending every second with someone. So, if they’ve been The Picture Of Dorian Grey-ing you, and beneath the facade, they’re a super ugly human being, it’s a sign that this might not be “the one.” Look, I’m not saying you should immediately break up, but I’d give it a solid consider.

On a related note: Make sure you are not the monster that someone wants to break up with after the vacation. Go with the flow, compromise, find the fun in things, listen to what they want, don’t poop with the door open, be nice to service people even if every flight was canceled and they tell you it’s so that all of the pilots at LAX can eat a burrito at the same time for National “Pilots Eat A Burrito Day…”

“That cannot possibly be a real day,” you say. “Please stop lying to my fucking face. I just want to get out of this godforsaken — (Deep breath) I mean… when is the next flight you can get us on? I really appreciate you helping us here. We’re so excited to be on this trip.”

Our best advice, be the traveling partner you wish to be with. And you’ll find the right match. Maybe even on this very trip.

I Have a Son Now, Which Means I Can Finally Start Respecting Men as People

I Have a Son Now, Which Means I Can Finally Start Respecting Men as People

Just think, for a moment, about how much better men would be to men if more men had boys.

By: Damon Young

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Last week, my wife gave birth to a beautiful, healthy, bouncing baby boy. He is all the things that you hope new babies are. A blessing. Loud. Adorable. Soft. Precious. Gassy. Alert. Moderately bemused. Perpetually hangry. Vaguely human. Somewhat reminiscent of Fred Sanford.

He is also life-changing. He’s our second child, but our first boy—my first son—and there are myriad reasons why this first son status is so crucial. I look forward to people asking if I plan to dress him like a miniature replica of me, just so I can respond, “Why would I do that? He’s his own person, not a miniature replica of me,” and walk away. I’m anticipating the day I’m able to teach him how to catch, because then his big sister—who’s practically a catching maven now—will have someone to play with while I’m crafting clever Facebook statuses about fatherhood. And I’m more than anxious at the thought of our first trip to the barbershop, because if it’s anything like my first trip to the barber, I might have to fight a barber—like my dad almost had to—and I’ve never done that before. Mostly though, I’m beyond grateful for this boy person in my life because holding him in my arms and looking into his eyes will finally teach me to do something I’ve never done, which is respect and honor men.

Although I am 39 years old, and although I’ve encountered tens of thousands of men in those 39 years (the vast majority of whom, I think, were human beings) and although I am a man, treating men with kindness and compassion is something that I just never learned to do. When I’d see men and boys—and this includes when I’d look in the mirror—and I’d ponder whether to have any empathy for them, I’d just think “Nah.”

Of course, I’ve grown to respect men and think of them as equals worthy of protection and care. I was—and still am!—aware of all of the statistics about how boys are more likely than girls to drop out of school and how men are more likely than women to be incarcerated and how males (in general) are more likely than females (in general) to be Kappas. And these things mattered to me, but in theory. They mattered mattered. But none of it mattered mattered mattered—it wasn’t real—until that boy was born, and I held that boy against my manly chest. And then, and only then, did I start to really get it.

Now, because of this male child that I’m legally and morally obligated to care for, I am more sensitive to the unique challenges facing men. I’m more cognizant of the language I use, the images I consume, the music I listen to, the people I surround myself with, and the sports teams I root for. I’m more mindful and respectful of my dad and my uncles and my cousins and my homies and my barber and my favorite male barista and the rest of the men currently in my life, and I even find myself thinking back on past relationships I’ve had with men and wishing I’d regarded them with more empathy. I now shudder at the thought of all the times I was on the basketball court and guarded by men shorter than me, and how boorish and vulgar I was when I’d post them up and dunk on them. I’m ashamed of myself.

Just think, for a moment, about how much better men would be to men if more men had boys. That should be a requirement, actually. Vague eugenics aside, how else can you expect men to have any sort of compassion for a gender comprising half of Earth’s population if we don’t literally create one of them with our own sperm? Where else are we going to find that? How else will we learn to respect them?

This transformation hasn’t happened overnight. I still have considerable biases and blind spots about men that need rectified. But now, when I look in my son’s sleepy eyes and he stares back at me, wondering when this awkwardly bearded man is going to hand him back to his mother, I know that I have an investment. A stake. Some skin in the game. (It’s his skin, but still.)

Thank you, son.

Ice T’s Thoughts On Michael Cohen Being Sentenced To Three Years In Prison Is The Only Analysis You Need

Ice T’s Thoughts On Michael Cohen Being Sentenced To Three Years In Prison Is The Only Analysis You Need

Ice T is cold.

By: Uproxx

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As you’ve no doubt learned by now, Michael Cohen, former personal attorney and “fixer” to President Donald Trump was sentenced to three years in prison by a federal judge on Wednesday, for crimes including but not limited to campaign finance violation, tax evasion, and lying to Congress. Or as the judge put it, “a veritable smorgasbord of fraudulent conduct.”

Before the judge handed down the sentence, Cohen appealed to the mercy of the court by attempting to deflect blame onto his former boss. “I have been living in a personal and mental incarceration ever since the fateful day that I accepted the offer to work for a famous real estate mogul whose business acumen I truly admired,” he admitted.

And as juicy and entertaining as this all is at face value, prolific tweeter Ice T took things to another level by live-tweeting the outcome. “Cohen just got 36months in the Feds.. AFTER telling everything,” he wrote.

“If you ask me. He told EVERY Fn thing he could to save his OWN ass.. EVERYTHING,” he continued. “That MF wants NO part of Prison.”

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Cohen just got 36months in the Feds.. AFTER telling everything.

— ICE T (@FINALLEVEL) December 12, 2018

Yep. That’s usually called conspiracy. https://t.co/xomdr8YZ5r

— ICE T (@FINALLEVEL) December 12, 2018

We can only hope. As someone else pointed out, who should know better than Detective Odafin “Fin” Tutuola from Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

Lol. That’s street shit homie. https://t.co/ZUssuoLqVw

— ICE T (@FINALLEVEL) December 12, 2018

If you ask me. He told EVERY Fn thing he could to save his OWN ass.. EVERYTHING.. That MF wants NO part of Prison. https://t.co/qw19yHjhdH

— ICE T (@FINALLEVEL) December 12, 2018

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Washington is a ‘Circular Firing Squad’ anybody can get it.

— ICE T (@FINALLEVEL) December 12, 2018

Oh shit! Avenatti is going in! This shit is Wild son! https://t.co/GcDuzY38YF

— ICE T (@FINALLEVEL) December 12, 2018

But that wasn’t the only big news of the day:

In other Breaking News!!!! Ice T got a parking ticket…

— ICE T (@FINALLEVEL) December 12, 2018

Will ‘Black Panther’ Help Redefine ‘Star’ Overseas?

Will ‘Black Panther’ Help Redefine ‘Star’ Overseas?

Some industry veterans say that while studios’ international distribution branches know how to market big franchise films, they are not always as well suited for the kind of marketing that films with nonwhite casts might require.

By: Cara Buckley

Tyler Perry is a household name in the United States, where his movies have made nearly a billion dollars. But in Britain, he is known mainly for playing the lawyer to Ben Affleck’s accused husband in “Gone Girl” — if he is known at all.

Some of the movies Mr. Perry has written and directed have received small international openings, most often in South Africa and the Arabian Peninsula. Only one or two ever got anything close to a European theatrical push.

“I fought for it, I asked for it,” Mr. Perry said. But often he gets the same response: “Stories with black people don’t travel, don’t translate.”

For years, minority filmmakers have pushed Hollywood studios and distributors to get over a reluctance to promote their films worldwide. They are hoping that 2018 was the tipping point they have been waiting for.

This year “Black Panther,” “Crazy Rich Asians” and “BlacKkKlansman” all raked in money overseas, an unusual winning streak that challenged beliefs about the global appeal of actors of color.

Charles D. King, the chief executive of Macro, a financial backer of “Fences,” starring Denzel Washington, and the summer indie hit “Sorry to Bother You,” said he had seen examples of an industry shift. He pointed to Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer’s and Warner Bros.’ full-bore promotion of the November boxing sequel “Creed II,” with its star, Michael B. Jordan, traveling with the film internationally.

Of the longstanding belief that films need white leads to travel, Mr. King said: “We’re seeing pockets of progression, where the studio pushes the agenda.” $64 million at the overseas box office: “Crazy Rich Asians” benefited from strong champions inside Warner Bros.CreditWarner Bros.

Image$64 million at the overseas box office: “Crazy Rich Asians” benefited from strong champions inside Warner Bros.CreditWarner Bros.

International distribution is hardly a glamorous aspect of moviemaking. But with the global box office more important than ever to a studio’s bottom line, the prognosis for how a film might fare abroad has far-reaching implications for the size of its budget or whether it even gets made.

Representatives for major studios declined to comment for the record about the issue, though several privately insisted that their films were treated equally regardless of the stars’ race.

But publicly available data suggests that beyond some exceptions — the “Fast and Furious” franchise, and films starring Mr. Washington or Will Smith — movies with minority stars generally have not received the same international push as white-led ones.

Comparisons are imperfect, but in 2014, for example, the Kevin Hart-led remake of the romantic comedy “About Last Night” made $2 million more at the domestic box office than the rom-com “Blended”with Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler, despite opening in 1,300 fewer theaters, according to Box Office Mojo, which tracks ticket sales. But “About Last Night” was released in only a fifth as many countries as “Blended.”

“Blended” did well internationally, either proving studios’ instincts right, or as critics suggest, showing what happens when studios put more effort behind white-led films.

Boots Riley, the director of “Sorry to Bother You,” starring Lakeith Stanfield, brought attention to the process when he complained on Twitter that “distributors r claiming ‘Black movies’ dont do well internationally and r treating it as such.”

While “Sorry to Bother You” went on to secure international distribution from Focus Features, industry insiders said that there was truth to the director’s charge.

Some film industry veterans familiar with studios’ thinking say the issue is about perceived risk.

If a film is deemed relatable only to a smaller domestic audience, like African-American moviegoers, executives have been loath to risk profits on what they see as an expensive gamble abroad. In that line of thinking, Mr. Perry’s trouble gaining traction overseas (his latest movie “Nobody’s Fool” has made just $227,000 in Britain) should be no more surprising than the failure of German or Italian comedies to find big audiences in the United States, where even some British hits, like “Johnny English Strikes Again,” barely registered. $40 million overseas: Spike Lee’s “BlacKkKlansman,” starring Laura Harrier and John David Washington.CreditDavid Lee/Focus Features

 $40 million overseas: Spike Lee’s “BlacKkKlansman,” starring Laura Harrier and John David Washington.CreditDavid Lee/Focus Features

“The unknown mystery studio execs are always demonized, but they are investing millions and millions of dollars and face incredibly high risk and they have one weekend to get it right, and often they can’t,” said Hamish Moseley, head of distribution for Altitude Film Entertainment, a British distribution and production company. “And they are beholden to information they have, which is what other films have done.”

Executives also have pointed to the influence of China, the world’s fastest-growing film market, saying its audiences have aversions to black actors. The Chinese market, which has a quota system on foreign films, is more complicated than that; while “Black Panther” earned a relatively middling $105 million there, for example, “Star Wars: The Last Jedi” made less than half that amount. But China still weighs heavily in decisions on film budgets.

This year seemed to prove old industry assumptions wrong. By throwing muscle behind nonwhite filmmakers who drew deeply from culturally specific experiences, studios hit pay dirt.

“Black Panther” drew nearly half of its $1.3 billion revenues from overseas, and “Crazy Rich Asians” made a quarter of its $237 million earnings abroad. Foreign ticket sales account for nearly half of the $88 million “BlacKkKlansman” has made worldwide so far. Their success followed strong showings in 2017 by two films with nonwhite leads, “Get Out” and “Hidden Figures.”

Some stars have refused to wait for studios to lead the way. Borrowing a page from Will Smith, who took it upon himself to promote his movies overseas, Mr. Hart raised his profile by touring his comedy show around the world. Now nearly a third of his box office earnings come from overseas, a figure he is working to grow.

“The studios wouldn’t take the first step and promote him,” said Jeff Clanagan, who works closely with Mr. Hart as president of Codeblack Films, a division of Lionsgate. “So Kevin went and built this audience for himself.”

But Mr. Clanagan said that he still is being told there is a less of an international market for movies with black actors. He is developing a film about the civil rights icon Angela Davis, whose incarceration in the early ’70s inspired the global “Free Angela” campaign. Despite Ms. Davis’s historic cachet, Mr. Clanagan said that convincing Lionsgate’s international division of the film’s global viability is a challenge.

“They’ll say, ‘We can’t forecast international,’ but there is no data to support that assumption,” he said. (Lionsgate had no comment.)

Malcolm D. Lee, who directed the recent Kevin Hart hit “Night School,” which drew a quarter of its $102 million take from global audiences, believes the lack of success of some nonwhite films overseas might be due less to audience taste than to a lack of studio effort. “If they’re saying that ‘Well, it’s not going to work,’ it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy,” he said.

His 2017 film “Girls Trip,” became part of an accidental sociological test that seemed to prove studio critics right. That movie had a nearly all-black cast that included Jada Pinkett Smith, and was released within a few weeks of “Rough Night,” which starred Scarlett Johansson and a nearly all-white cast. Both were R-rated comedies about women on wild weekend getaways.

“Rough Night” opened in 3,000 theaters domestically and some 40 countries. It made $47 million worldwide. Then came “Girls Trip,” which opened in 571 fewer theaters and in half as many countries, but trounced “Rough Night” with box office receipts of $140 million.

Some industry veterans say that while studios’ international distribution branches know how to market big franchise films, they are not always as well suited for the kind of marketing that films with nonwhite casts might require.

Priscilla Igwe, managing director of the New Black Film Collective in London, said that American studio films starring people of color are often released in Britain with little fanfare and negligible outreach to black filmgoers or black press. Jan Naszewski, owner of New Europe Film Sales, a distributor in Warsaw, said of the studios: “The only thing they do is carpet bombing, paint-by-numbers marketing. They don’t know how to reach an independent audience.”

Terra Potts, head of multicultural marketing at Warner Bros., said the success of the meticulous campaigns she crafted for “Crazy Rich Asians” and the 2015 film “Creed” were the result of having unwavering champions for each film in the studio from the get-go, which is often an anomaly for films with black or Asian leads.

Asian tastemakers were shown cuts of “Crazy Rich Asians” throughout production, which helped lock in major community support, and among the first to see “Creed” were attendees at one of Sean “Diddy” Combs’s music conferences in Miami Beach. The films’ domestic success helped foment international interest.

“You really need people internally who believe in it, who are not going to take no for an answer, ” Ms. Potts said. “This kind of success doesn’t just happen.”

Facebook Invests $1 Million in Program for Underrepresented Engineers

Facebook Invests $1 Million in Program for Underrepresented Engineers

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CodePath.org, an organization that provides free, accelerated mobile engineering classes for professional developers, recently announced that Facebook has invested $1 million to help expand their reach. Prior to Facebook’s contribution, CodePath.org served 400 students per semester. Their new goal is to target 1000 students per semester in the next year.

Additionally, the funding will allow them to create courses that target underrepresented minorities, and women during their freshman year, and expand their number of college partners. In the past three years, over 1700 students from over 30 colleges and universities have taken CodePath.org courses. In the next year, Facebook will enable CodePath.org to quadruple the number of students taught per semester.

Other funding goals include decreasing attrition for underrepresented students who enter the major, bridging the gap between traditional computer science curriculum and practical software engineering job responsibilities, and cultivating a bigger pipeline of underrepresented software engineers.

When taught on-campus the students are required to complete a 12-week intensive program that consists of 150+ hours. The students are shown videos, given guides, and receive 24/7 online support and grading from CodePath.org. After the course is complete, students are matched to internships based on their course performance. In addition to their current curriculum, CodePath.org offers multi-year course series that include iOS, Cybersecurity, and several other specialties.

The overarching goal of the organization is to help to diversify the tech workforce. Outside of technical skills, they help the students prepare for the technical interview process in addition to focusing their curriculum on how to land internships at larger tech companies, which has typically been known to be extremely competitive.

The move also come in the wake of a black former Facebook manager’s public complaint about the social media giant’s treatment of its black employees.

Writing in a Facebook post, Mark S. Luckie said, “Facebook’s disenfranchisement of black people on the platform mirrors the marginalization of its black employees. In my time at the company, I’ve heard far too many stories from black employees of a colleague or manager calling them “hostile” or “aggressive” for simply sharing their thoughts in a manner not dissimilar from their non-Black team members.”

To learn more about CodePath.org, click here.

So far the organization has had the support of over 23 universities, including Mississippi State, Howard, and Purdue. These campuses now host CodePath.org courses for academic credit to expose students to real-world coding challenges. This gives students the relevant skills that major tech companies and other CodePath.org hiring partners are looking for.

Change That Tune: The Influence of Music in Movies

Change That Tune: The Influence of Music in Movies

Often, the inclusion of original music in film production is used as a tool to influence audience experience in a way that taps into the subconscious mind and generates feelings associated with specific music scores. With the release of Codeblack’s newest production TRAFFIK, featuring Paula Patton and Omar Epps, the original musical accompaniments Bleeding Machines and Heart of a Woman both serve to reiterate the emotional turmoil and subsequent strength that it takes the characters to survive their traumatic weekend getaway.

Choosing the music in a film production is a key aspect of audience experience and allows viewers to become immersed in the film itself, and also the emotion of the characters in a way that generates subconscious empathy and understanding. Specifically, in TRAFFIK, the relationships between the characters are not entirely without dissension.

The tracks Bleeding Machines and Heart of a Woman are both prime examples of the ability for music to transport audiences when paired with the right visuals on a film soundtrack. Both songs in TRAFFIK display the love and strength of conviction that is required to overcome both physical and emotional struggle.

The use and importance of music in modern-day movies is one that has been underrated for so long.

These days, music very easily sits in the film narrative remaining consciously unobserved, whilst still stimulating our subconscious. This aids the emotional impact that such movies have on our minds.

The uses of music in movies have been constantly evolving since the early 1900s. These days, artistes are often contracted to make music specifically for movies – this is called Film Scoring.

Film Score: Music created specifically for a movie #musicbiz #filmbiz CLICK TO TWEETWe will proceed to analyze the progress of the use of music in movies right from the start of both arts. We will also examine some of the past and current uses of music in movies, as well as attempt to predict possible uses in the future.

Our goal is to provide a holistic understanding of the true essence of music in movies.

How The Use of Music Has Evolved in Movies

Music in movies and films began back in the silent film era, featuring the likes of Charlie Chaplin.

Early on, the music featured in these films was not recorded with the film. These films were usually projected onto a big screen in front of a large audience, and because sitting in silence the whole time would be awkward, live music was always played at such screenings.

It was the responsibility of the composers and instrumentalists made sure the music went along with the movie.

With the advent of talking pictures, music once again sprouted up to the top of elements in the music industry. Original scores were soon created, starting with Max Steiner writing the first original score for King Kong in 1933.

This seemed to have injected some courage into composers and filmmakers as they began to experiment more and develop music that went along with plots and characters.

Fast forward to the 1950s and Jazz music was all over the film industry. Synthesized sounds sprung up in the 1980s and it became totally possible to film score with only one performer by using the synthesizer to create the sounds of several instrumentalists.

With the rapid advancement of technology these days, film makers and music composers have the required resources to create perfect film scores that will properly accentuate their movie plots and characters.

Uses of Music in Movies

As can be inferred already, the many uses of music in the movie industry have been continuously changing with new technologies.

Creating an Atmosphere

Music can be used to create the perfect atmosphere in a particular film scene, by setting the right tone and mood for the plot moment.

Just by the way the music comes into the movie, one can properly discern the level of drama or genre or atmosphere or mood expected of such a movie or scene.

Commenting

Music can be used to create an impression or judgment about a particular scene.

In the early days of music in the film industry, the main essence of music was commenting on certain scenes. And yes, music can place labels on scenes, however it should not be overdone if the aim is to let the audience figure content out by themselves or to keep up suspense.

Music is used to create the perfect atmosphere in a film scene #musicbiz CLICK TO TWEETHowever, when used well, music commenting can help guide the audience in the right direction and evoke the right emotions at the right scenes.

Portraying Emotions 

Music can be used to effectively reveal the emotions of characters.

A face with any expression can be interpreted to portray another emotion just by infusing the right music.

Want to give a movie character the right emotional weight? Choose your music wisely CLICK TO TWEETThis function is also applicable to the audience as the right music can make the audience feel whichever emotion the film maker requires them to feel.

Referencing Social, Geographic or Cultural Factors

Music can work well in referencing the legacy or tradition of a group of people. The social or cultural heritage of a group of real life people or movie characters can be properly communicated by infusing the right music into the film.

Geographic settings can also be properly denoted with the right music.

For instance, playing music associated with a particular geographical location can be an easy way of communicating where a particular scene is taking place, ensuring there is no confusion amongst the audience.

Referencing Particular Time Periods

Music can be effectively used to reveal the time period during which a scene or movie is set.

Playing music from that particular time period will help the audience easily understand the time period during which such a scene or movie is set.

Set the mood, and the era, by using the right music in a movie CLICK TO TWEETAlso, if there is a flashback during a movie, playing a music from the time period of the flashback will make the flashback more understandable.

Creating Contradictions or Suspense

This is a very strong use of music in the film industry, and when used properly, can help keep the audience in the direction of the movie.

Music that sounds like what is not expected in a particular scene will create a feeling that something is not right, and will alert the senses of the audience.

Music can particularly be useful in creating suspense, for instance if a character is running towards a corner, not knowing what to expect on the other side, the music can speed up, helping create a tense mood amongst the audience.

Connecting Scenes  

The right music can help attach the right scenes together.

If a movie is changing from a rather hard scene to a softer one, playing the perfect music can help smooth this transition. This helps make the audience subconsciously comfortable with the somewhat steep property differences between the scenes involved.

What is the Future of Music in the Film Industry?

Right from the early 1900s, music has been a part of the movie industry, and it is sure to grow in popularity in coming years. There are already newer uses of music in movies, such as physiological conditioning.

These uses are bound to increase in numbers, and the prospect of music in the film industry is one that is very exciting.

Conclusion 

It goes beyond saying that music has an evolving and very intimate relationship with the film industry, hence the importance of music in the movie industry is one that should never ever be understated.

When used properly, music can help guide the audience and evoke the right emotions from within them.

Learning how to use the right music in films is an art that requires constant review, you need to understand your audience, as well as ensure you do not compromise on the plot or quality of your film. It is only right that every film maker keeps music in mind whenever a new movie is being created.

Traffik Movie Starring Paula Patton And Omar Epps Releases Trailer And Artwork

Traffik Movie Starring Paula Patton And Omar Epps Releases Trailer And Artwork

Traffik stars Paula Patton, Omar Epps, Roselyn Sanchez and Laz Alonso. In the action packed thriller, Patton and Epps play a couple who are off for a romantic weekend in the mountains, isolated at a remote estate. The couple are surprised by the arrival of two friends, Sanchez and Alonso when the weekend takes a dark turn. The foursome are forced to fight for their lives in this action packed thriller and will stop at nothing to protect their secrets.

Traffik premieres in theaters April 27. Sign-up for updates: http://Traffik.movie


Meet Anne Reid, the Black Woman Tapped As Elizabeth Warren’s Chief of Staff

Meet Anne Reid, the Black Woman Tapped As Elizabeth Warren’s Chief of Staff

Here are five facts about Anne Reid.

By: Black Enterprise

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In addition to taking another step toward launching a presidential run in 2020, Sen. Elizabeth Warren has named Anne Reid as her new chief of staff, making Reid one of the few African Americans to lead a U.S. Senator’s staff. Reid is also the only black woman serving as chief of staff for a Democratic senator.

“Anne is a gifted leader and committed public servant,” Warren said in a statement released Dec. 27. “Anne’s experience serving our country and working to improve the health and well-being of millions of Americans will be invaluable as we continue our fights to level the playing field.”

The announcement that Warren tapped Reid for the position is being praised as a progressive step toward diversity by the Joint Center for Political and Economic Studies. “Black women play a critical role in our democracy, and Senator Warren’s appointment of a talented staffer like Anne Reid recognizes that Americans from all backgrounds can serve in a leadership role at the highest levels of government,” said Spencer Overton, president of the Joint Center.

“As we have seen so far during this hiring season, the face of senior staff in the House and Senate is changing because of members who recognize that it is not enough to have diversity in electoral coalitions. Diversity and inclusion must be the centerpiece of policymaking. It starts with staff,” added Don Bell, the director of the Black Talent Initiative at the Joint Center.

The move could be part of Warren’s effort to court black voters should she decided to challenge President Donald Trump in a bid for the White House next year. As for now, the Massachusetts senator has created an exploratory committee to test the waters before her potential run.

Here are five facts about Anne Reid.

She was hired and promoted by Warren within two months

Reid began serving as Sen. Warren’s Senior Advisor in Oct. 2018, just a couple of months before she was named as the senator’s new Chief of Staff.

She worked for the Obama administration

Reid began her work in D.C. politics back in 2008, working as a congressional staffer in the U.S. House of Representatives under the Obama administration.

During this time, Reid served as a staff member and legislative analyst for the House’s Energy and Commerce Committee and the Oversight & Government Reform Committee for Democrat Rep. Henry A. Waxman. In her final year on the Energy and Commerce staff, she was the lead Democratic staffer covering public health agencies and issues.

Later, she went on to work as a counselor to U.S. Health and Human Services Secretary Sylvia Mathews Burwell, where she was a member of the senior leadership team during Barack Obama’s last years in office.

Reid previously served as a legislative assistant to U.S. Sen. Christopher A. Coons.

She co-founded a Public Health & Policy Think Tank

Following President Trump’s inauguration, Reid left government and teamed up with former Obama administration staffer Bobby Clark to create Concordis: Strategy and Analytics in June 2017. The group researches public health issues, develops policy ideas, and proposes solutions to improve health and well-being.

She has worked in the nonprofit sector

In Oct. 2017, Reid was named as the chief strategy officer at Vision To Learn, an organization that offers free eye exams and glasses to children in low-income communities.

She obtained a B.A. from Harvard and a Master’s from Chapel Hill

Reid holds a B.A. from Harvard University, where she majored in Hispanic Studies. She also holds a Master’s degree in Public Health from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.